Thursday, June 11, 2009

Bedroom Talk

I think it is about time a guy tells the world what everything is that goes through both minds of each sex. Now in every situation you must realize that there is two points of view, the feminine side and the masculine side... although sometimes these intertwine with one another. For some Reason females feel that guys hide there emotions and hold back from them. The honest truth is that guys are not as emotionally built as females are. We are built to feel emotions and go through them but they dissappear and we move on... most of the time. Females tend to ignore emotions and think about what went on and build up different emotions on top of that with theories and thoughts that cloud judgement. I dont say this and mean that guys are not guilty of the same thing but this usaually occurs when he feels guilty about something or feels he has no control over what is happening.

To the guys of the world that think just because you are commiting the act and you think she is having a great time, stop and think. They usually make the faces to bring up your confidence and hopefully will get you to do it right. Ladies I know it may akward but sometimes guidence in the bed is not a bad thing. Many guys are guessing and are just going by what they think they know. If you guide it might be more exciting for the both of you. Its one feeling to be in you and then there is the feeling of your insides doing backflips and cart wheels overjoyed. That being said fellas pay more attention to her and less about yourself. In the long run holding back on a nut or... 3 might have her on you every second of everyday. Once she has gotten that toe curling experience it will never be forgotten.

P.S.
To both sides of the species... Foreplay was invented for a reason. Ladies if you think your man is too quick, help him work out that first shot. It is the bodies natural instinct to approcriate. So once he gets that out he can stop worrying about holding it in and worry about making you scream like an Opera singer. Fellas, its not all about getting yours, make sure she gets hers too. make sure if you have one she has two or three. It may sound impossible but if you pay attention to how she moves, when she is in the swing of it she will guide you with her body. Shifting, pulling, pushing and other body movements will get you there.

Now go make some bad lyfe choices...

The Boy Wonder Signing off...